When your boyfriend must take off to enter the college chapter of his life, it can be one of the most bittersweet experiences. For the reasons of career and personal development, you are very much aware that he must complete the tertiary level of education. While your brain understands the logic that is present here, your heart sings a completely different tune as what you have considered as your ‘normal’, i.e., his presence is about to undergo a huge change.
You know that the right thing to do is to be supportive as this is going to be a huge change for him as well. So, you decide to offer your words of encouragement and to send your love along with him. You also decide to give him a going-away gift for when he leaves for college that will simultaneously bring him joy and help to keep the memory of you alive in his heart. You may be unsure of what to get him which is where we come in.
Here are some gifts that we recommend you get your boyfriend as he leaves for college.
One thing is certain, your boyfriend is going to be staying somewhere and he’s going to be needed to use keys to get into his college apartment. This key chain not only facilitates being a single point for keeping keys together, but it also complements the memory of you and your love.
With three different customization options, the messages that can be engraved on the stainless steel will all convey the same message that the love you share is more expansive than the distance that currently lies between you. This sentimental gift is a reminder that you are in his corner no matter what he faces.
He goes to another city to study and you want to have an object that will strengthen your relationship and celebrate your love. This gift can be shared by both you and your boyfriend and it is a perfect way to show how much you care. It is a memento to be worn proudly on his person as a reminder of the fact that you hold each other’s hearts. The option also exists to get two bracelets not only for matching but also for the sake of reinforcing the commitment that you have each agreed to.
Each bracelet boasts a compass as its centerpiece and this is indicative of the direction and distance between and your soul mate that is currently a factor. The card includes the message that distance is just a test of your love. Before he left for college surprise him with this very romantic gift.
Sometimes after a hard day or just for showing affection, you and your guy would hug each other. Of course, the distance involved in his going away for college makes that impractical and you now need to give him something that can take over from you while he’s away (we all know nothing can replace you though). Available in three sizes, this pillow bears the message “Hug this pillow until you can hug me”. It reminds your honey that you are still there for him, and he can have this to hold until he is again able to hold you.
Sometimes video calling and talking every day just isn’t enough. When the college wasn’t a factor, not only could your boyfriend hold you, but he also knew you were there to hug him. While that will no longer be possible due to the distance, it doesn’t mean he can’t still have an arm around him that you approve of. Featured in the Huffington Post, this pillow is notorious for being one of the top boyfriend gifts for those in a long-distance relationship.
The comfort, durability, and softness will be enough for him to cope without the benefit of your presence.
If your boyfriend likes working with his hands on little projects, and he uses screws, nails, nuts and bolts, then this is the gift you want to give him. There is nothing more annoying than doing some work and realizing these little things are lost. Even more annoying is having them and losing them because they fall into places that cannot be reached.
These wristbands possess strong magnets and are perfect for not only holding the items we made mention before, but they are also perfect for various small tools such as wrenches that he may need in his student apartment during the college years.
No matter how far your boyfriend may go, he cannot do without you and he cannot do without food. Gifting him something considerate helps him with the part of it as he knows your heart is still his, so why not kill two birds with one stone? This assortment of tasty and popular snacks such as Oreo cookies and Nature Valley bars will delight him with satisfaction and fullness. The snacks in this care package are guaranteed to have expiration dates at least 50 days away so no worries about him becoming sick.
Sometimes in a relationship, it’s important to remember the reasons you began in the first place. With your boyfriend away from you, the distance will no doubt be a challenge that you must both face. This hardcover journal can help with that in one of two ways. First, you could buy this journal and populate it with all the things you love about him, giving him something he can see and remember while he’s in college. Alternatively, you could give him the empty journal and have him populate it while he’s away, so his heart reflects on you daily.
Love is an expression which means that typically it’s felt on an emotional level. What if we told you that you could get your boyfriend a gift that expresses your love in physical form while he’s away. The color scheme of this blanket is enough on an expression, however, the velvet feel and softness and warmth radiate the positive feelings of love. Additionally, the text on the blanket can be customized and reflect one of eight love-filled statements.
With a gift like this, your boyfriend will be able to all but feel you snuggling next to him.
Your boyfriend’s being far away doesn’t mean he can’t enjoy a relaxing massage. This electronic masseuse focuses on the neck and shoulders which are known to be very tense areas. Not only does the device give a deep tissue massage, but it also can generate heat to relax muscle tension away. And it’s better if he needs a massage to have this thing than some college girl gives him a relaxing massage. Due to this, your boyfriend can enjoy a massage virtually anywhere without another woman ever touching him.
This gift for going to college feeds into the cliché of the persons in a relationship becoming two parts of a single whole. The graphics on the mugs (yes, it’s a pair) are very well done individually, but both mugs are needed to illustrate the complete picture. The fact that none of these mugs can do this alone, and that it is impossible for them to do it while your boyfriend is away, perfectly captures the importance of each of you to your relationship. Once you both remember that importance, all will be well.
Chances are before taking off for college, your going away partner didn’t always have to cook his own meals or even think about what dinner would be. Now that he may need to pick up that mantle, we’d suggest giving him a little guidance, so he doesn’t end up having to live at fast food restaurants. The title of this book alone gives insight into the frustration that can come with this decision and it loads him up with 50 adventurous recipes.
Giving him this gift you can sleep well knowing that you have averted a potential crisis.
Sometimes one of the best gifts you can give to your boyfriend is the pride in the thought of how much you need him and you’re sorry that he’s leaving. It is often said that males are visual creatures, so making use of the illustrations in this book to get your point across should be the perfect method of getting him to understand. The book presents various scenarios in the life that you must go through, and the negative implications of his not being present. Knowing his value to you is an awesome feeling.
This gift is the physical manifestation of a commitment that you have each made to each other. Your boyfriend must go off to college to gain the knowledge he needs to help secure a better life for you both and he promises to be back for you. You understand the necessity of what he is doing and you are just as committed to the preservation of your relationship so you have promised to wait for him. The promise to meet again is a going-away gift to send him off with a smile.
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